
Temptations...We All Have Them
Nancy Inglehart: Certified Zone Instructor, December 6, 2006
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It�s been a challenging day, the stressors are high, the baby�s been fussy, the dog is barking, the repair man is an hour late, you have to pick up the kids from school�..It�s time for a balanced snack�maybe some fruit and cheese, but instead you open the freezer and grab for the Mint Chocolate Chip ice cream, a couple of chocolate chip cookies and a coke.
Traffic was horrible, you were 20 minutes late for work, your supervisor is counting on you to deliver that report and you just spilled your Starbucks on it and all over you! You work steadily through the morning to catch up on your to-do list and finally it�s lunch time�.You look at your lunch bag which you packed with the healthy low glycemic salmon salad�.your co-workers are going out for fast food, so you push it aside and head out to grab a burger and fries.
You�re at a social gathering and the buffet spread is full of decadent morsels. You know you shouldn�t, but you want to fit in��You take a plate and sample everything that is offered.
You�re the only one in the family who is �dieting�. This is a whole new concept for you. The kids are used to pizza and burgers. Your husband wants his usual meat and potatoes and pasta. Dessert has always been a part of the meal. It is hard to stick to your balanced meal��so you join them in a piece of pie and whipped cream.
Do any of these scenes sound familiar? How do you overcome those temptations? An occasional indulgence is something we all need now and again, but what often occurs is that what we see as occasional, turns into a more and more frequent habit, until those extra pounds start adding up and soon, your jeans are tight.
I have found some techniques that work for me to avoid these temptations:
If I find myself becoming too stressed:
- I take 5 minutes to regroup
- If I can�t step outside the situation, I use visual imagery to put myself in another pleasant place momentarily
- I breathe in deeply and exhale slowly for 5 breaths
- I drink some water
If I pack a lunch and find myself slipping into the �But I�d rather eat out today� habit:
- I write myself an encouraging note and attach it to my lunch bag
- I tell myself I will not spend money on food today and put the money in my reward jar when I get home
If the temptation of unfriendly foods gets too great:
- I make it a point to not buy those foods any longer
- I clear out my cupboards and fridge and get them out of the house
- I symbolically pass the problem food on to an accountability partner and tell them I will not eat or buy this food again
When others tell me that �just this once won�t hurt�, or when I find others apologizing to me for eating all those tempting things in front of me:
- I carry a �motivation� photo of myself when I weighed 325 pounds. My son added the caption �Fat Mama�. It�s funny now, but it took me a long time to heal from those hurtful words and looks I received from just about everyone
- I tell them to enjoy some for me
When I am in this alone and other members of my family want to eat �the way we used to�:
- I don�t start an argument by denying them what they want. I pick my battles in life, and this is NOT one of them
- I lead by example and encourage them to come over to my side
- I make sure I have enough of my own healthy foods around that I can enjoy while sharing their company and social time
And in general:
- When I dine out, I ALWAYS ask for a �To-Go� box up front, before I eat any of my entree, and put half of it in the box to take home. Most restaurants serve a �super-sized� portion, far too much for one meal. Then I have a ready-made meal for the next day. I might add a small fresh salad to round it out
- I carry bottled water with me
- I always carry a balanced snack in case of emergency (usually a Balance Bar)
- I tell myself, �No one has the right to tell me how to feel or act�. I take ownership of my situation and just thinking of how hard I have worked to achieve what I have, makes me pause long enough to rethink what I might do to sabotage myself�and tell myself �It�s not worth it!�
- I reward myself. If I am in the store and put a problem food in my cart, and end up putting it back on the shelf, I add the cost of that food to my �reward jar� when I get home
- I know I don�t have a 100% success rate with the temptation issue. There are times when I just can�t fight it, no matter what I do, and I give in. So what do I do to get back on track?
- I acknowledge that I did eat something that I shouldn�t have
- I forgive myself�I do not beat myself up, but I DO journal what triggered the temptation and my reaction so I can work on preventing that again
- If I see a pattern developing and a problem food haunts me, I simply turn it over to my accountability partner. I call it a �ritual cleansing�. It�s funny to recall what things I have turned over, but I have never purchased them again. Just the physical, real exchange has a profound impact on significance of the act. It holds you accountable.
Yes, Balanced Nutrition is a forgiving lifestyle. You can jump right back in if you have fallen out. You realize how much better you feel when you are balanced. However, it is so easy to slip and backslide further and further until you find you have gained more than just a couple of pounds and your jeans no longer fit, unless you know how to beat those temptations at their own game.